Most of you know that I have had the privilege to be a part of a new radio program entitled, Growing StrongerTogether and just this past week our program on waiting aired. (No, this is not why I want to throw a hissy fit). On this week's program I shared that we were headed to the long awaited trial for termination on two of the children who have blessed our home through foster care. I joyfully shared that we would be heading into the courtroom on August 21, after waiting 5 and a half years for this day to come. I encouraged our listeners to see what God has to teach you while you wait for Him to move in situations while you wait. It was, and is all sound advice.
However, (and yes this is where the hissy fit comes in) once again, God had a different plan. Oh, I had clearly explained to God what I felt was best here, and submitted my plan in triplicate to Him for approval. And, I was certain it was the perfect plan...but then ONCE AGAIN, court was postponed.
This time the delay is because the judge is retiring. So now we wait. It is a process, first they have to find a new judge. Next they will swear him/her in. Then the new judge will have to spend time reading through the case file (literally boxes of pages). Once all of those things happen we can move forward. What that means is that there is no end in sight. As of right now, there is no new date set. Again we wait.
I wanted to throw a big hissy fit, like the one I described earlier, but the truth is that it would be of no benefit, and it would scare the children! So instead I went to the archive of our radio program and I listened to the program on waiting again. It is humbling to have to listen to your own advice!
So instead of whining, I am going to:
1. Get some rest, often times a stressful situation or waiting period seems worse only because we are tired.
2. Pray about it! Life is hard, we get discouraged but we need to remember that nothing is impossible with Christ. (Luke 1:37)
3. Get some friends to hold my arms up.
4. Examine the situation.
Is it really all that bad? Am I where God wants me to be?
5. Remain hopeful
Isaiah 57:10 You were tired out by the length of your road, Yet you did not say, ‘It is hopeless.’ You found renewed strength, Therefore you did not faint.
· Often we grow tired, waiting for the end but we cannot lose hope! This is where faith comes in, we have to trust that we are where God intends us to be.
I imagine Joseph grew tired as he waited in that cistern, and then in jail, and even as he prepared for Egypts drought…but he was able to say, “What you have meant for evil, the Lord has used for good.”
6. Don't hurry God
Matthew 16: 28-30 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
Rather than throwing a hissy fit, I think I am going to go spend some time with my Abba Father. Will you join me?